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Thursday, June 12, 2008
it's just a matter of habit. was just thinking of how marriages last while listening to daddy yell at mummy over a goddamn trivial matter. cldn understand how mummy can stand getting yelled, shouted and picked on over t little-st things simply coz daddy's in a bad mood. somehow he didn use to be this way. i dont remember daddy raising his voice at mummy when i was young until maybe when i was in sec2? damnx. & as i was saying, i was thinking of it and this brilliant ans came to my mind. evt's just a matter of habit. some marriages last not coz of t forever love kinda thing but coz t two pple are so used to life tgt they cannot do without t other party. true, emotions play a part but it's simply coz humans are creatures of habit tt we put up with evt and carry on. eg. you hate ur job though u have been at it for yrs. u aint gna quit though u noe u do btr else where. why? coz u cant stand t thot of doing smth entirely NEW to u u r too used to t way u r working now. even if u leave ur current job for smth new, there's gna be a pt of tyme whereby u think u r better off slogging ur guts out lk u had previously it isn love tt makes pple stay tgt sadly, it's t prospect of facing an entirely new life imagine thinking of t different life u gna face after so long t feeling of loss and confusion when it comes to dealing with things u had no exp in coz they have been done by t other person previously. it's enough to make u force urself to get used to evt since what's bugging u wldn be a problem anymore once u r [yet again] used to it. when someone goes lk "i cant do without you", think again. love? it may just be a case of dependance |
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